Friday, December 4, 2009

Wedding Programs In Memory What Should I Put On My Wedding Programs About The Memorial Vase I'll Have Up Front?

What should I put on my wedding programs about the memorial vase I'll have up front? - wedding programs in memory

I have a glass memorial in advance, somewhere in the wedding and put something about these programs. I want to put something in honor and his past and said, rose symbolizes that the person, and so on, but probably put a little poem, having memorized. Something about how we couldnt there on our special day .... can someone help me somewhere? Assistance case, the two that will meet my family, not my girlfriend. The first one is my niece, who died in his sleep for 6 months, two days after a tonsillectomy and the other my sister (the mother of my niece, my older sister), she also found died in his sleep two weeks ago that they believe was brain anurysm person knew that he did. To at least a difficult 6 months and I want to show only a good way to pay tribute and that they are still there in spirit to say on a day so important .. Thank you.

7 comments:

patricia b said...

What a wonderful idea. It was a terrible time for you and, of course, these people need to be reminded. I'm sure everyone is on the ceremony, which will speak of their special day will be affected. If you included your picture in the program with a brief summary of his life that people who have not an idea of what would be her know. Like a poem, not to think about why his favorite song, and write a verse from the letter under each picture?
The monument of glass that is not completed, or you or your bridesmaids could carry two roses in the driveway and put it into the cup with a prayer, a brief summary (if a church) or a little dedication to the person the ceremony? Just take some seconds, but are in fact involved in the ceremony.

patricia b said...

What a wonderful idea. It was a terrible time for you and, of course, these people need to be reminded. I'm sure everyone is on the ceremony, which will speak of their special day will be affected. If you included your picture in the program with a brief summary of his life that people who have not an idea of what would be her know. Like a poem, not to think about why his favorite song, and write a verse from the letter under each picture?
The monument of glass that is not completed, or you or your bridesmaids could carry two roses in the driveway and put it into the cup with a prayer, a brief summary (if a church) or a little dedication to the person the ceremony? Just take some seconds, but are in fact involved in the ceremony.

kill_yr_... said...

I personally am against this kind of thing. It is quite embarrassing that expectd a joyful event and party, and I find myself stuck in a ru-run funeral I attended. A marriage to the union of two persons (and possibly children) from different families and the creation of a new family. It should not be cluttered with many other events such as births, deaths, etc., but about marriage.

If you you want something personal and close members of the family is to be understood, in honor of their beloved dead, that's fine. But the people are there to meet you with joy not to share, to their pain. Sorry if this seems harsh, but it's a tough world in which they expected to be in private mourning sympathy, no request for an audience.

kill_yr_... said...

I personally am against this kind of thing. It is quite embarrassing that expectd a joyful event and party, and I find myself stuck in a ru-run funeral I attended. A marriage to the union of two persons (and possibly children) from different families and the creation of a new family. It should not be cluttered with many other events such as births, deaths, etc., but about marriage.

If you you want something personal and close members of the family is to be understood, in honor of their beloved dead, that's fine. But the people are there to meet you with joy not to share, to their pain. Sorry if this seems harsh, but it's a tough world in which they expected to be in private mourning sympathy, no request for an audience.

D_ said...

We have something similar but with candles. I do not remember the exact words, but on the back of the program, which is something like: "The candles on the stage of our family who can not be here today"
and then made a list of their names. We have therefore, as many of our grandparents had lived, that has to do with different names.

Sorry for your loss. My brother spent a little over 2 years. I could not imagine what needs to plan their wedding with everything that happened. I look at my wedding pictures, and I am very glad that my brother had to share this day with me. I'm sorry that your niece and her sister May, you share your wedding with you. You are in my prayers.

D_ said...

We have something similar but with candles. I do not remember the exact words, but on the back of the program, which is something like: "The candles on the stage of our family who can not be here today"
and then made a list of their names. We have therefore, as many of our grandparents had lived, that has to do with different names.

Sorry for your loss. My brother spent a little over 2 years. I could not imagine what needs to plan their wedding with everything that happened. I look at my wedding pictures, and I am very glad that my brother had to share this day with me. I'm sorry that your niece and her sister May, you share your wedding with you. You are in my prayers.

D_ said...

We have something similar but with candles. I do not remember the exact words, but on the back of the program, which is something like: "The candles on the stage of our family who can not be here today"
and then made a list of their names. We have therefore, as many of our grandparents had lived, that has to do with different names.

Sorry for your loss. My brother spent a little over 2 years. I could not imagine what needs to plan their wedding with everything that happened. I look at my wedding pictures, and I am very glad that my brother had to share this day with me. I'm sorry that your niece and her sister May, you share your wedding with you. You are in my prayers.

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