Friday, January 8, 2010

Rude Sister How Should I Handle A Rude Sister In Law?

How should I handle a rude sister in law? - rude sister

My sister (Men's sister) to say something rude to me or my daughter. Can I ignore or change the subject. Then repeat once or twice. I think I could my relationship with her jealous brother. What should I do if it no longer repeat the rude comments? I was killing the animals with kindness, but it does not help. I am a quiet person, do not want the problems in the family and see, dass

5 comments:

SheilaB said...

Some people simply because it means that it can be. Not make the best thing to do is talk to him about his problem and if that fails, then your daughter grow up thinking that not enough for his SIL. I have a SIL and luckily I live far away, and she knows better than in the mouth in front of me. But had my eldest niece, my other SIL, bear with it and just take my niece to one side when I say down with him and assure him that my SIL is a bad person. She tells him should be ashamed of all the trash on a daily basis. When asked for a snack while, my SIL said she is not just for children. I feel really bad, why is not there, but from time to time. Sometimes it's just not what you can do, then others to avoid the person or the increase for the truth about them.

SheilaB said...

Some people simply because it means that it can be. Not make the best thing to do is talk to him about his problem and if that fails, then your daughter grow up thinking that not enough for his SIL. I have a SIL and luckily I live far away, and she knows better than in the mouth in front of me. But had my eldest niece, my other SIL, bear with it and just take my niece to one side when I say down with him and assure him that my SIL is a bad person. She tells him should be ashamed of all the trash on a daily basis. When asked for a snack while, my SIL said she is not just for children. I feel really bad, why is not there, but from time to time. Sometimes it's just not what you can do, then others to avoid the person or the increase for the truth about them.

sassymam... said...

I have exactly the same situation. My SIL never missed an opportunity to reduce slam, or rude to me. The straw that broke the camel's back when he said a "list" of things he needs to read, I work and I wish I had provided in order that for every negative thing I had to say I had to say something positive about me. She said it was not possible because he had no positive qualities.

That's when I decided to send a "hello and goodbye to her. Well, they completely ignored me, and I feel very relieved.

It is difficult to say whether he confront his willingness to work. With my SIL not. She ignored me. His sister-in-law may be quite different.

Classy chick said...

Just ask: "I have to ask (the law), why you want to comment so rude to me, my daughter and I?
Defend what is normal
The follow-up and say, "well, but in the future, could you please refrain from saying things like no one I really appreciate it."
Good luck

Classy chick said...

Just ask: "I have to ask (the law), why you want to comment so rude to me, my daughter and I?
Defend what is normal
The follow-up and say, "well, but in the future, could you please refrain from saying things like no one I really appreciate it."
Good luck

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